Care giving can often mean being kind rather than demonstrating you are right. It is the seniors life and part of that is the thoughts and perceptions being held in the mind. The care giver being right and the senior being wrong does not enhance the quality of the over all experience. Saying the care giver could help them if they would only listen is not productive.
Care giving involves ongoing balance between risk of harm verses the seniors autonomous level of independence. It can seem simpler, and much more efficient to just do everything for the senior. The care giver could impose their will, constantly offer advice, manipulate behavior to better align with your chosen values, and consistently explain your position as an expert on the seniors life. It seems more ethically responsible for a care giver to partner with the senior.
Partnering involves meeting with the senior in communication. The care giver goes past the place of right and wrong to partake in an experience of genuine discussion. Sharing ideas in an atmosphere of trust, that helps support the seniors choices throughout the day. The care giver is better able to understand the seniors sense of loss. The care giver learns ways to support the senior in participating in the things they can do for themselves.
Respecting the seniors unique ability to solve a problem. Being open minded. Listening to what the senior wants. Accompanying the senior with their daily experiences as a way to empower their strengths. It is always easier just to do it your way for the senior. It is always more beneficial to co-create and participate in the events of the day with the senior.
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